The four things that must never go on it
Everything about this sheet's usefulness comes from where it is kept, and where it is kept is a fridge door, a wallet, a glovebox and a neighbor's kitchen drawer. Treat it as semi-public, because it is.
- No Social Security number. It is on nothing a paramedic needs and it is the single most useful line to somebody who takes the sheet.
- No account numbers, card numbers or sort codes. Nothing in an emergency turns on them.
- No passwords, PINs or recovery codes, and no note of where they are kept.
- No copy of the will, the deed or the power of attorney. Say the document exists and where it is; do not attach it.
A sheet carrying financial details is a document that is worth stealing, taped to a door. The private inventory is where those belong, and it lives somewhere entirely different.
Where the copies live
A sheet in a folder is a sheet that will not be found. Four places, and each one answers a different scenario.
| Where | The scenario it answers | What to do |
|---|---|---|
| The fridge door, or a kitchen cupboard door | An ambulance in the house | Paramedics are trained to look in the kitchen. Do not hide it behind anything. |
| The wallet, folded, behind the cards | Collapse away from home | Print it small. It only has to be legible, not pretty. |
| With the named decision-maker | They arrive at the hospital and are asked questions | A photograph on their phone is enough, and is the version most likely to be current. |
| With one neighbor or a nearby friend | Nobody in the family is within an hour | Ask first, and tell them what it is for. This is also the person who will let a paramedic in. |
Add the date it was written, in the corner. A sheet with no date is one nobody can trust and nobody will replace.
How this differs from the full inventory
These are two documents with two audiences, and collapsing them produces one document that fails at both jobs.
The emergency sheetThe account and asset inventory
One page, read in ten seconds by a stranger, in an emergency. Many pages, read over weeks by somebody with authority, after one.
Kept where it will be foundKept where it is safe
The sheet is on a door. The inventory is in a safe, with a lawyer, or in a password manager — and the sheet may say that it exists without saying how to open it.
Medical, contacts, authorityAccounts, policies, property, debts, professionals
Nothing financial belongs on the sheet. Nothing on the sheet is missing from the inventory, which should carry all of it and more.
Keeping it true after the first month
A stale sheet is worse than none, because it will be believed. Three triggers are worth treating as automatic.
Redo it when any of these happens
- Any change to a medicine — a new one, a stopped one, a changed dose. This is the line that goes out of date fastest and matters most.
- A hospital admission, whatever the reason. Something will have changed, and the discharge summary is the easiest moment to catch it.
- A change of doctor, insurance plan, or the person named to make decisions.
- Otherwise, once a year on a date you already remember. Attaching it to a birthday works better than a reminder nobody set.
Replace the old copies rather than adding to them. Two sheets on a fridge is a question a paramedic does not have time to answer.
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What to find
Nine lines. If a line takes more than one line, it belongs in the private inventory instead.
Who this is
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Full legal name, date of birth, and the language they are most comfortable in
CriticalThe name as it appears on the insurance card, which is often not the name they use. A date of birth is what every hospital system matches on.
Usually kept Known, and therefore never written down.
If it doesn't exist Records cannot be matched, and a hospital treats an unknown patient with no history.
Medical
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Conditions and past surgery, in plain words
CriticalDiabetes, a pacemaker, a stent, epilepsy, a transplant, a bleeding disorder, dementia. Devices and implants matter more than diagnoses here — a pacemaker changes what can be done in the next minute.
Usually kept Across several letters from several specialists, none of which is in the house.
If it doesn't exist Treatment starts from nothing, and the questions get asked of whoever is standing there.
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Every medicine, with the dose — including anything bought over the counter
CriticalName, dose and how often. Blood thinners, insulin, heart medicines and anything for seizures are the ones that change immediate decisions.
Usually kept On the packets, in a drawer, and out of date on any list that exists.
Needed for Medical information
If it doesn't exist A frequent gap, and the one that most often causes harm — a missed blood thinner changes what is safe to do in the first hour.
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Allergies and bad reactions, and what happened
CriticalDrug allergies especially, with the reaction — a rash and anaphylaxis are recorded the same way and are not the same thing.
Usually kept In one practice's record and not in another's.
If it doesn't exist A reaction nobody expected, from a drug given for a good reason.
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The primary doctor and the pharmacy, with numbers
ImportantThe practice name and number is enough. A pharmacy can confirm a medication list faster than any other route when the list on the sheet has gone stale.
Usually kept On a repeat prescription slip.
If it doesn't exist The medication list cannot be checked against anything.
Authority
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Who may make health care decisions, and their number
CriticalThe named health care agent or proxy. Federal privacy law requires a provider to treat somebody with legal authority to make health care decisions for an adult as though they were that adult — so this line is the difference between being told what is happening and being told nothing.
Usually kept In an advance directive in a drawer, and not in the hospital's system.
Needed for Advance directives
If it doesn't exist The hospital decides who to talk to, and the person nearest the phone is not necessarily the person who was chosen.
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Two people to ring, in order, with their relationship
CriticalTwo, not one, and say which is first. Add the relationship — a hospital calling a name it cannot place gets a different response.
Usually kept In a phone that is locked.
If it doesn't exist Nobody is told for hours, which is the part families remember afterwards.
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Whether an advance directive or a POLST exists, and where
ImportantNot the document itself — where it is. If a POLST exists, say so: it is a medical order rather than a legal document and it travels with the patient.
Usually kept In a folder nobody will open in time.
Needed for Advance directives
If it doesn't exist Full treatment is the default, which is the right default and is sometimes not what was wanted.
Practical
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Insurance: which plan, and the member number from the card
ImportantThe plan name matters more than the number in the first hour — whether it is Original Medicare, an Advantage plan or something else changes where somebody can be taken.
Usually kept On the card in the wallet, which is usually with the person.
Needed for Medicare enrollment
If it doesn't exist Billing chaos later, and occasionally a transfer to the wrong facility now.
Questions people ask about this
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Isn't this what the medical ID on a phone is for?
It helps, and it is worth filling in — but it depends on somebody finding the phone, the phone being charged, and whoever finds it knowing where to look. A sheet on a fridge needs none of those. Do both: they take the same ten minutes and fail in different ways. -
Will the hospital actually talk to the person I name?
If that person has legal authority to make health care decisions, yes — federal privacy law requires a provider to treat them as though they were the patient for those purposes. Naming somebody on a sheet does not by itself give them that authority; the health care proxy or advance directive does. The sheet's job is to make sure the hospital knows who it is.Source 1 -
My mother has dementia and would be alarmed by a sheet on the fridge.
Put it inside the cupboard door beside the fridge, or in a marked envelope on it. Paramedics look in the kitchen rather than at any particular surface. It is also worth asking whether the objection is to the sheet or to what it represents — that is a conversation, and it is a different one from where to tape a piece of paper. -
Should I get copies of the medical records too?
Not for this sheet, which has to stay to one page. But it is worth requesting them separately and in advance: a provider has to act on a request within thirty days, and may take one further thirty only by telling you why. That is not a timescale that helps in an emergency, which is the argument for asking before there is one.Source 2
Official links you'll need
Every link goes directly to the issuing agency or the official tool, and opens in a new tab.
Where this sits in the process
Related
- Account inventorythe private document this one deliberately is not
- Advance directiveswhere the authority this sheet points at comes from
- Medical informationthe medication list, in the detail the sheet cannot carry
- HIPAA authorizationbeing told things, as distinct from deciding them
- Emergency planningwhat happens once an emergency is declared rather than merely happening
- Essential documentsthe documents the sheet says exist
Sources
One page of practice, resting on two federal privacy rules that decide who may be told anything at all.
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45 CFR §164.502(g) (Uses and disclosures: personal representatives) (opens in a new tab)
That a provider must treat somebody with authority to make health care decisions as the patient.
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45 CFR §164.524 (Access of individuals to protected health information) (opens in a new tab)
The thirty days a provider has to answer a request for records, and the one extension.
Sources last reviewed 2026-08-20. Where a source is marked pending re-verification, the page says so wherever the claim appears.